Party Summary, Payment and Frequently Asked Questions

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 A Princess Party

Frequently Asked Questions
Princess Party Plan

Cost

Cancellations

Form of Payment

Minimum Age

Costumes

Girls and/or Boys

No Show Guests

Participation

Parents

Number of Kids

Volume Discount

Dressing

Eating

Damage

Deposit

Cleaning

Transportation Fee

Shipping

Tax

Tipping

Price Changes

Donations

Other stuff

SUMMARY - WE OFFER 50 DIFFERENT THEMES

OUR 2 MAIN THEMES:
Princess Parties for girls or boys & girls where boys attending are Knights, Kings, Wizards & Dragons
Pirate Parties for boys or girls & boys where girls attending are Mermaids, Pixies & Tinkerbells

**In order to focus on the theme of the party and the birthday child's interest, we do not combine the Princess with Pirates.
If you have an idea for a theme and don't see it listed on our website, just call and we can create a party together.
Scroll down for a list of currently available costumes for rent anywhere in the world or parties that are available for hosted parties in select cities. 

We come to you, whether it is your home or another location such as a community center, park, church, library or school.  The overall idea for all our parties is a unified theme accented with dress-up. Our parties are interactive and hands-on instead of an adult "performing". Boy and girl twins or similar shared gender birthday parties are best as a Knight & Princess Party.  We can customized two different concentrations based on your children's unique personalities and our creative thinking to keep the party with one unified theme (such as Race Car Driver and Cheerleaders).

Hosted and Costume Parties are NOT recommended if the birthday child is just turning 1 or 2 years old and the majority of the guests are under 3 years old.

Parties for 3, 4,  and 5 year olds:
We recommend your party only be 90 minutes long.  We provide 45 minutes of a story, dress up, pictures, and games.  A 30 minute break will follow for parents to serve food, cake, open presents, or do a pinata.  During the 30 minute break your hostess will clean up supplies and take inventory of costumes and accessories.  Also, she will hide clues for our final treasure hunt.  The last 15 minutes of the 90 minute party will be our trademark treasure hunt.  This activity is customized to the specific age group at your party.  The hostess will read poem and riddle clues which lead the children to their party favors.  The favors can be provided by you or ordered through our company at the time of confirmation.

Parties for 6 and up:
We believe these parties can last longer than our 90 minute hosted portion.  Often parents schedule parties to last 2 hours or longer.  This allows time before and/or after our hostessed portion for a craft, additional games, or free play time.   We provide 45 minutes of a story, dress up, pictures, and games.  A 30 minute break will follow for parents to serve food, cake, open presents, or do a pinata.  During the 30 minute break your hostess will clean up supplies and take inventory of costumes and accessories.  Also, she will hind clues for our final treasure hunt.  The last 15 minutes of the 90 minute party will be our trademark treasure hunt.  This activities is fit to cater the specific age group your party.  The hostess will read poem and riddle clues which lead the children to their party favors.  The favors can be provided by you or ordered through our company at the time of confirmation.

Prices:

The initial party price is $195.  This price includes 8 children.
$15 per each additional child
$2 per favor set (or 50% regular favor prices such as more expensive light sabers)
Transportation fee possible for parties located 20 miles or more from the hostess' location
Optional 30 minutes is $5 per child or $50 depending on activity
If you are planning on 22-29 kids the cost is $400, for 30-39 kids $500, etc. (excluding bear stuffing parties)

A $75 deposit is required to reserve a date and time. The deposit is non-refundable but fully transferrable to another date, person, or option.

The remaining balance ($195 less $75 deposit = $120 balance + $15 per additional child) is due the day before the party if you are paying by credit card or the day of the party if you are paying by check or cash.

Tips are greatly appreciated after a successful party.


Additional optional services and fees:

Additional children, invitations, a craft, extra time, prizes, treat bags or party favors, renting a grown-up costume so a "costumed character" can make an appearance, additional assistants, travel time for more than 20 miles from the hostesses home and special services are all available for an additional fee.

Additional Parties:
Parties available but possibly not listed on our site include: "Lilo & Stitch", "Finding Nemo", "Sponge Bob", "Wizard of Oz",  "The Little Mermaid", "Dora the Explorer", "Scooby Doo", "Prom Princess", "Spirit Horse Parties"

Important Information:
Only ONE person is guaranteed to come and host the party unless you specifically ask and pay for a second or more individuals.  A second person MAY attend at no charge depending on our schedule, training, and the size of your party.

Please feel free to request a specific hostess based on a referral from a previous party.  However due to illness and scheduling conflicts we cannot guarantee a specific hostess for your party. 

The party hostess may or may not come dressed as A "Fairy Godmother" (a blue robe).  Under no circumstances should you expect or tell the birthday child that THE "Fairy Godmother" is coming to her party.  We are your daughter's very special "Fairy Godmother" and NOT Cinderella's "Fairy Godmother".  We always try to attend Princess Parties wearing a Fairy Godmother robe, but sometimes unexpected problems may occur.  We no longer offer "Princess Costumed Characters" because of reliability issues.  We do rent the grown-up Princess costumes so that you may find someone to make a Celebrity Princess appearance.  Other grown-up costumes are available such as: Prince Charming, Aladdin, Capt Hook, Darth Vader and more.

Detailed EXAMPLE of A PRINCESS PARTY - Our most popular party!!!

No two parties are the same.  This is just an example.  The party is held in your home or other location you choose.  A total of fourteen guests including boys and girls are expected to attend. The scheduled party is from 1:00pm to 2:30pm.

We (one or two people) arrive shortly before our start time to set up and discuss a hiding place for the party favors with you. Then we bring in a couple of boxes or treasure chests and possibly a background such as a Castle Stage, Unicorn Mural, Red Curtain, Disney Tent, or Disney Stage.  The children's excitement at the site of a treasure chest makes a dramatic beginning and building the castle (two minutes) creates the festive theme decor you need.

Once all of the guests arrive or 15 minutes after everyone SHOULD have arrived, the hostess tells or reads a 5 to 15 minute story about how she will turn the girls into Princesses and the boys into Knights. Following the story the birthday girl opens the treasure chest to reveal the Princess Dresses inside.

The birthday girl chooses her favorite dress first. Of course, if the birthday girl wants to be Cinderella, her best friend wants to be Cinderella too. So we bring duplicate costumes of the traditional Disney Princesses: Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Belle, Jasmine and Ariel. After girls go first, the boys are given their turn. 

After everyone has put on a costume, we take individual pictures with a digital (web page) camera and encourage you to do the same. Then we try and do a group photo.   Please keep in mind that only select cities offer a web page for each party.  The Princesses and Knights make their royal entrance to the ball being introduced one by one.

Then the birthday girl opens the second treasure chest to reveal tiaras, wands, swords, shields, and other accessories.  At this point the boys are sword fighting and hiding treasures while the girls begin to switch in and out of different costumes and parade around. We've done over 500 parties and the boys are very good with the swords in this atmosphere.

At this point it is probably about 1:30. We do a variety of theme related games and activities conducted to fill the time so the children are always entertained. We have over ten different activities to choose from but usually only do about two or three. These games are mostly unique to Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc. and may include: Peek-a-boo Purse, Find Cinderella's Slipper, Slay the Dragon, Ariel's Treasures and more.  The activities are chosen based on the birthday girl's interests and the overall personality of the group.  (If we started 15 minutes late, we can run 15 minutes into the half hour break time.)

At the end of the first 45 minutes of story, dress-up and activities portion of the party, the fairytale clock strikes midnight and all of the children have to undress as fast as they can before their princess dresses and knights costumes turn into rags!

By now its 1:45 and the kids are ready for cake and ice cream.  While the Mom is handling the children, we are cleaning up game materials, taking inventory of costumes and accessories, and hiding clues for our final treasure hunt.  Sometimes it is easier to settle the final balance while the children are eating cake since you might be socializing with parents as they pick the children up at the end of the party.

After the 30 minute break it's now about 2:15.  The hostess will read clues to the children leading them on a treasure hunt where they find and keep the treasure. We explain to the children that they have to figure out where the next clue is and find each in order. If they all work together as a group to find all of the clues the final destination will have the treasure that they keep to take home.

The first clue might be, "Snow White took care of 7 little men. Their favorite place to sit in in the den. But where would they ALL SIT, if you scrunched them together a bit, UNDERNEATH it you will find, a clue that is one of a kind." We bring about 20 theme and age appropriate clues and make sure each child has a fair turn to find a clue. The final clue leads the children to the treasure which would be their party favors.  If you buy the favors from Princess and Pirate Parties, they would include wands & tiaras for the girls and sword with sheath for the boys.  Parents love seeing the children dash from location to location as they figure out the clues. The kids love the feeling of pride when they figure out the answers and find their reward.  I have some clues that parents can't figure out but a child rushes straight for the secret destination. Once they find the treasure they are ready to depart. The party has now had the perfect flow with a clear beginning, middle and end.  Everything appears to be timed down to the exact minute even though flexibility is built into the format.

Variations:
 4-year-olds need more guidence and activities so we might play "Pin the Horn on the Unicorn" or sing "The Unicorn Song" using stuffed animals. Smaller sized, all-girl parties tend to move along more quickly so we might play "Pass the Present".  6-year-olds need longer parties so the first half hour can be a craft. Parties held outside the home in a gym or community room with larger groups might have a different type treasure hunt. Assorted treasure chests are placed around the room and the children have to find the items that are pictured on cards. This game is especially good for mixed ages. Groups with 20+ kids are mostly just dress-up and the kids "running around" playing or sometimes the boys off sword fitting while the girls choose to do games. EVERY PARTY IS DIFFERENT BUT THEY ARE ALL PACKED WITH FUN AND MEMORIES


Frequently Asked Questions:


FOP Question: What form of payment do you accept?
Answer:
For advance payment of the deposit or for the party we accept a check or credit card via paypal.com.  For payment the day of the party we accept a check or cash.  Checks for payment of deposits and parties should be made out to: 

Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc.

and sent to:

Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc.
Attn: Ruth Princess
4106 Franklin Avenue
Western Springs, IL  60558

OR if you have a LOCAL Hostess, the check may be made out directly to the independent contractor by their full name and NOT Princess and Pirate Parties. Please check the main page for links to affiliates for their names and phone numbers.

Ruth Princess' local phone numbers are 708-246-BDay and cell phone 708-579-1963.  Balance will be due by credit card the day BEFORE the party or if you choose to pay the day of the party you may do so by check or cash. You will be charged all fees if a check is declined for NSF. Tipping is greatly appreciated.

All Pricing and Policies are subject to change. Please check the bottom of a page for the most recently updated date, if it is old, please verify the information. You are protected from Hostess price increases if you have paid a deposit and a dated copy of on-line pricing.

Cancellation Question: What happens if I have to cancel the party, lets say the birthday child is sick?
Answer:
I will work with you to arrange another date for the party. The deposit is nonrefundable but fully transferable. You may transfer the deposit to another date or use it toward a Do It Yourself Party or supplies.  If the party is cancelled while the hostess is in transit to the party or after she arrives, the deposit and/or a transportation fee may be necessary to compensate the hostess for her time and costs.

Age Question: My child is only turning 3 years old. Do you have a minimum age?
Answer: No. I believe that your child's party should be memorable for everyone attending the party.  However, we do NOT RECOMMEND our hosted parties if your child is turning one or two AND most of the children attending are under three.   These parties are best handled by purchasing costumes and supplies and doing the party yourself.  The typical 2 year old loves to play independently and therefore group activities are mostly pointless.  But we do lots of parties for one and two year old birthday children where the guest attending range in ages from 1 to 12 years old.

Costume Question: For hosted parties, are the children assigned a costume or do they get to choose?
Answer:
The children get to choose the costume and they may try on more than one.  Duplicates of many costumes are provided in order to prevent arguing. Keep in mind there are NO Pirates at Princess Parties, boys would be Knights, Kings, Wizards and Dragons.  At Pirate Parties the girls are able to choose between Tinker Bells, Pixies, Mermaids or Pirates.

Girls & Boys Question: I want to have a Princess Party for my daughter. Can boys attend too? Can girls attend the Pirate Parties? Answer: Yes, I have Knight, King, Wizard and Dragon costumes for the boys for a Princess party.   At Pirate Parties the girls can dress up as mermaids or Tinkerbell pixies.

No Show Question: Do I pay for a child if they do not attend?
Answer:
No. You also do not have to pay for babies/children too young to walk alone.  However, you do pay for uninvited guests such as siblings old enough to participate.

Participation Question: Do I pay for a child if they do not participate?
Answer:
YES. Often when a child does not want to participate, more time is spent by me trying to make them comfortable. Costumes and activities are available for them as part of our preparation. Exceptions would be if all of the guests are 5 and 6 years old and it is a 2 year old or 10 year old that is not participating. However, parties with mixed ages are charged for children who can walk and up to 12 years old. If you have uninvited guests such as siblings old enough to participate, you will need to pay for them as well.  Another exception is if those not participating are in another room not even watching.  This is common if the party is for entire families with mixed ages but just 8 girls all the birthday girl's age are in the basement playing dress-up while the other guests are outside at a barbeque. The final 15 minute treasure hunt can include all of the other children at no additional charge.

Parents Question: Can Parents attend the party?
Answer:
Yes. There is no per person charge for adults. Grown-up costumes are available FREE for parties with 6 or fewer children by requesting them prior to the party date.  You may also rent a grown-up costumes for the parents or for someone to make a guest celebrity Princess appearance. We request parents attend parties if their children are under 4 years old.  If the children are 4 and 5 years old, it is common practice to have the young guest or the guest's parent decide whether it is best to stay or leave.  If guests are older than 5 years old, the invitation should specify if parents are invited or if the party is a drop off party. 

Number of Kids Question: Is there a minimum or a maximum number of children?
Answer:
There is no minimum. An Initial fee of $195 is set regardless of the number of people. The first one through eight children are included in this price and each additional child is $15. If you are having 22-29 children, there is a flat rate of $400.  If you have 30-39 kids it is $500, 40-49 is $600, 50-59 is $700, etc. (excluding bear stuffing parties).  I have over 100 Princess costumes and more than 100 other costumes to accommodate larger groups.

Discount Question: Do I receive a discount for a large number of children.
Answer:
Yes, but not usually. The $15 per child charge for more than eight children covers the additional stress on costumes and accessories, increased preparation and wrap-up time, scheduling of other parties immediately before & after, maintaining an extensive inventory of costumes and the possible need to bring an assistant. I have to prepare for more than the RSVP count but only charge you for those that actually attend. If you are having 22-29 kids, you receive a break by only paying $400 (excluding bear stuffing parties).  If you are having 30-39 kids, the cost is $500. If you have more than 40 children, you are charged on the RSVP count plus additional children in one to ten children increments at $100.

Dressing Question: What should the children wear?
Answer:
My costumes are designed to go over the child's street clothes. No one should get undressed.  For the best possible fit and for comfort, I suggest girls wear leotards or swimsuits.  However, this is not mandatory.  The children should NOT come in their own princess dresses.  My GIRL invitations usually contain the following note: "Formal Princess attire for the Little Ladies will be provided at the party.  For faster costuming, consider wearing a leotard or bathing suit."

Eating Question: Can the children eat while wearing the costumes?
Answer:
NO. The party is formatted for the dress-up to take place for approximately 45 minutes.  We have an easy method for changing back into their regular clothes before eating.  Also, for hosted parties, we need the half hour breaktime to put the costumes away and take inventory.

Damage Question: Am I responsible for damage of the costumes?
Answer:
Not usually. A child running around stepping on things is expected wear and tear. This is incorporated into the price.  However, if there is intentional damage (shredding or painting the costumes) or unusually extreme situations (chocolate fondue served during the dress-up time), I do expect compensation for the replacement value of damaged costumes.

Deposit Question: How do you determine the security deposit for costume rentals?
Answer:
The security deposit is to encourage the return of the costumes. You are not charged for usual wear and tear.  Children running around stepping on hems, spilling light colored liquids, pulling seams when dressing is normal.  However, if the damage is negligent or intentional (shredding or painting the costumes) or you do not return the costumes, you will not receive your security deposit back and you WILL be responsible for ADDITIONAL charges for the replacement cost.  The security deposit is NOT the same as the purchase price.  Some costumes are no longer available for purchase and can sell for 3 - 4 times their original value on Ebay.  This is why you will be charged the REPLACEMENT COST, not the security deposit.

Cleaning Question: Do I have to wash the costumes before returning rentals?
Answer:
No, you do not have to but you are welcome to do so.  For example, if something was spilled, it will wash out better if you clean it right away.  We appreciate you helping us out.  We machine wash the costumes in cold water and hang dry despite the fact they instruct spot cleaning or dry clean only.  We do not expect you to pay for dry cleaning.

Transportation Question: Do you charge a transportation fee?
Answer:
A transportation fee is charged if you are more than 20 miles from the hostess' central location.  We charge approximately $1 for every mile from the hostess's location rounded to the nearest $5.  For example, you are located 40 miles from the hostess, you will be charged a $40 transportation fee.  For a Chicagoland map, click here.  Please visit your local Hostess' web page for their transportation fees or please request a fee quote for other areas (i.e. Out of State).

Shipping Question:  How much is shipping?
Answer:  Shipping is usually charged by a flat rate according to the following chart.  However, some items may have higher or lower charges or handling fees which will show up in your PayPal shopping cart.  If actual shipping costs are 20% more than you were charged, we may request additional payment. If acutal shipping costs are 20% less than you were charged, you may request a refund.  I do have a $7 add to cart button for expedited or international shipping.  In approximately 80% of all cases, this charge will cover the additional costs.  Lightweight items to Canada may not need to pay the additional $7.  When in doubt, please call or email for additional shipping charges.

Tax Question: Do your prices include tax or is it extra?
Answer:
Tax is charged on item purchases (such as costumes) in Illinois.  Tax is not charged on hosted parties or rentals as this is a service. 

Tipping Question: Do you accept tips?
Answer:
Yes, if you feel you received good service, tipping is always greatly appreciated.

Price Changes: What happens if I book in advance and you have a price change?
Answer: 
When a substantial price change is made, we will call everyone who has paid a deposit and let you know you will receive the old price, but to please remind us the day of the party that you booked prior to the price change.  If I make a special offer over the phone such as waiving the transportation fee because another party is in the same town that day, please make a note of it and include it with your deposit. I know my web page is extensive and it may be difficult to find answers to all of your questions.  If you find conflicting prices, please check near the bottom of the page to see when it was last updated and let me know about the error.  In the last 5 years there has only been 2 major price changes.

Donation Question: I am on a fundraising committee. Would you be willing to donate a party for charity?
Answer:
Usually I will make one donation per month. Please call 708-246-2329 or email to request a donation.

Current Costumes:

For just $20 for any theme, I can provide you with a Do It Yourself Treasure Hunt (just scroll down once in the store).

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Other sites might directly link to those above.

PRINCESS and PIRATE PARTIES, Inc. is an Illinois Corporation created by Ruth Princess - Johaningsmeir.
In Chicago, Ruth and/or her party planners can host a special party for you. 
In other select cities we have independent contractors that may have different prices and policies.
All liabilities are the responsibility of the home owner or the party facility.
We are providing a service in your home with your expressed permission to conduct the described activities.
Disney Princess names, logos, and all related titles are a registered trademark of The Walt Disney Company©. All rights reserved.  Other names, characters, images, trademarks and logos are protected by trademark rights, copyrights and other rights and are the property of their respective owners.
These companies are suppliers to Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc.

If you would like costumes, crafts, and/or games for your little Princess or Pirate then just call Ruth at:  888-BDay-678

Thank you for taking the time to read this and visiting Princess and Pirate Parties.
Princess Ruth
Ruth Princess
Owner and Creator of Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc.

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All liabilities are the responsibility of the home owner or the party facility.
We are providing a service in your home with your expressed permission to conduct the described activities.

Disney Princess names, logos, and all related titles are a registered trademark of The Walt Disney Company©. All rights reserved. Other names, characters, images, trademarks and logos are protected by trademark rights, copyrights and other rights and are the property of their respective owners. These companies are suppliers to Princess and Pirate Parties, Inc.